Forgive…and forget…??

Debating forgiveness. How many of you have ever felt that way before? You always hear people say that forgive and forget is the best way to go. Forgiveness is not always easy…but it’s simple enough to do and once done everything is forgotten right?

Wrong…

I just read an interesting article a few weeks back. To forgive is good…but not always and not in the long run. Forgiveness may bring healing power to some and to help them move on. But that’s not always the case. Getting mad and getting even actually brings closure. Trying to get even while trying to forgive is actually a good thing in a way… You cannot always push somebody to easily forgive…what more to forget…

So to forgive…or not to forgive?

To me… I have always thought that forgive and forget is always the way to go. But then, i guess i was wrong. Some things just cannot be forgiven nor forgotten that easily. Many things in life that will leave a scar that will hurt once press on again. True…you might say that scars are the one that help you build character, your style, your life, you in whole… It may be worth all the hurt to know who you really are but then, you still need to take it one step at a time.

Just one small baby step at one time…

I’d be lying if i said i’ve never been hurt or never been lied to before. And i’d be lying that i’m not hurting now either. But then, I thought i have forgiven many people of many things. Just that sometimes (thanks to those stressful moments in life) you tend to think back and think about how your life has been. What you have done in the past. What happened in the past. Whether or not you are still holding on to a grudge or betray so long ago. Hm…these things are serious things are they not?

Serious they are… Thoughtful they make you…

So well…I suppose i’m just taking a step back in life. To just look at all that i’ve done and i’ve created. To see what has been going on with my life. To see where am i heading from here. More often than not i will choose back the same path that i have walked…after all the anger and unjust had been avenged… I will be coming back to this life soon… For the meantime, let me retreat in my own shell for a while… Just long enough to think and sort everything out. To see daylight again. To see a future again.

So with this i bid you all…farewell~~

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